In this important study of women with alcoholic husbands, Asher vividly
describes the process of coming to terms with a profound crisis in one's
private life. From interviews with more than fifty women, all of whom
were participants in family treatment programs, she assembles a
composite picture of the experiences shared by wives of alcoholics. The
testimony given by these women illustrates the steps they must take to
regain control of their lives. The first step is figuring out what is
happening and deciding what to do about it. Asher argues that the vogue
of using the label "codependent" may actually hinder rather than
facilitate emotional health. Led to think of themselves as addicted to
their husbands' addictions the wives of alcoholics may be persuaded that
their own problems can't be overcome. But, Asher shows, these women can
take command of their lives.
Originally published in 1992.
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