This fun, smart read for anyone eager to better understand (and
improve) themselves argues that personality is driven not by nature nor
nurture--but instead by the projects we pursue, which ultimately shape
the people we become.
Traditionally, scientists have emphasized what they call the first and
second natures of personality--genes and culture, respectively. But
today the field of personality science has moved well beyond the nature
vs. nurture debate. In Who Are You, Really? Dr. Brian Little presents
a distinctive view of how personality shapes our lives--and why this
matters. Little makes the case for a third nature to the human
condition--the pursuit of personal projects, idealistic dreams, and
creative ventures that shape both people's lives and their
personalities. Little uncovers what personality science has been
discovering about the role of personal projects, revealing how this new
concept can help people better understand themselves and shape their
lives.
In this important work, Little argues that it is essential to devote
energy and resources to creative endeavors in a highly focused fashion,
even if it takes away from other components of our well-being. This does
not mean that we cannot shift from one core project to another in the
days of our lives. In fact, it is precisely that ability to flexibly
craft projects that is the greatest source of sustainability. Like
learning to walk, forcing ourselves out of balance as we step is the
only way in which we can move forward. And it is the only way that human
flourishing can be enhanced.
The well-lived life is based on the sustainable pursuit of core projects
in our lives. Ultimately, Who Are You, Really? provides a deeply
personal itinerary for exploring our personalities, our lives, and the
human condition.
