Being able to find the humor in heartache, the transcendent in tragedy
and the funny in folly is an ability that deserves more exercise from
all of us. In this second collection of poems following the publication
of The Sunset Years, Rabbi Bernstein-Goff shares some of his personal
successes and failures in a world where truth is often elusive and
deception is everywhere beginning with one's self. Thus Uncle Bernie
humorously recalls the deception of an old family friend, while Jacob's
Song reminds us that a biblical patriarch is not above using deception
to get the blessing he wants to become. Poems like Russian Lullaby and
The Meshugeneh explore how the avoidance of truth by the masking of
personal pain can come back to haunt us, occasionally with a devastating
finality. Many of the poems in this collection deal with family
relationships and the bitter sweet realities that accompany the process
of sharing our vulnerabilities and too often the failure to do so with
those we love. Yet strangely enough, sometimes even failure creates
opportunities for redemption. Finally, poems like The Shoe Box and Death
Bed Daydream celebrate our living, our dying, and our death.