In those times when we want to acquire a new skill or face a formidable
challenge we hope to overcome, what we need most are patience, focus,
and discipline, traits that seem elusive or difficult to maintain. In
this enticing and practical book, Thomas Sterner demonstrates how to
learn skills for any aspect of life, from golfing to business to
parenting, by learning to love the process.
Early life is all about trial-and-error practice. If we had given up in
the face of failure, repetition, and difficulty, we would never have
learned to walk or tie our shoes. So why, as adults, do we often give up
on a goal when at first we don't succeed? In his study of how we learn
(prompted by his pursuit of disciplines such as music and golf), Sterner
has found that we have forgotten the principles of practice -- the
process of picking a goal and applying steady effort to reach it. The
methods Sterner teaches show that practice done properly isn't drudgery
on the way to mastery but a fulfilling process in and of itself, one
that builds discipline and clarity.