Fostering the capacity to be alone isn't the same thing as self
indulgence or self obsession. It's learning to hold all that we do, and
all that we think in awareness. This awareness is not a neutral,
colourless thing. There is something about true awareness or mindfulness
which is essentially kindly and compassionate, and loving ourselves in
this way is not being weak or limp. With a kindly awareness we can't go
wrong.
Referencing contemporary cultural touchstones such as Into the Wild,
the art of Edward Hopper, and the films of Charlie Chaplin, Sarvananda
considers loneliness and solitude.
Buddhism suggests that solitude can bring about positive emotion and
change. Exploring this idea through personal experience, psychology, and
myth, the author shows how facing our essential aloneness can lead us to
better understand how we are all essentially connected.
Sarvananda was born and educated in Glasgow, Scotland. He has been
teaching classes in Buddhism and meditation for the last twenty years.
This is his second book.