The key to a harmonious work environment is not by working among
people with similar personalities whom you never clash with. Instead,
learning to interact effectively with difficult coworkers is essential
for success.
Most of us are going to work today with individuals who at times come
across as incompetent, lazy, spotlight-hugging, whiny, or backstabbing.
Then, tomorrow we go to work with them again and again. Like it or not,
the bulk of our waking hours are spent with people at work--people who
can grate on our nerves.
Communications expert Renee Evenson thoroughly explains how anyone can
learn how to confront head-on the difficult situations that can arise
when dealing with these personalities, before they fester and spread.
In Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People, Evenson shares
practical and easy-to-use tactics such as:
- Thirty common personality traits, behaviors, and workplace scenarios
along with the phrases that work best with each
- Nonverbal communication skills to back up your words
- Sample dialogues that demonstrate how phrasing improves interactions
- A five-step process for moving from conflict to resolution
- "Why This Works" sections that provide detailed explanations
Button-pushing situations are going to come up today at work--and
tomorrow too. Don't let them rent space inside of you and turning
everything to mold. Instead, choose to deploy simple phrases to regain
control and resolve conflicts.
When you do, you, your colleagues, and your company will be all the
better for it!