It is one of the great mysteries of human nature. Why are some people
worriers, and others wanderers? Why are some people so easy-going and
laid-back, while others are always looking for a fight?
Written by Daniel Nettle--author of the popular book Happiness--this
brief volume takes the reader on an exhilarating tour of what modern
science can tell us about human personality. Revealing that our
personalities stem from our biological makeup, Nettle looks at the
latest findings from genetics and brain science, and considers the
evolutionary origins and consequences of different personalities. The
heart of the book sheds light on the "big five" Extraversion,
Neuroticism, Conscientious, Agreeableness, and Openness. Using a
stimulating blend of true-life stories and scientific research, Nettle
explains why we have something deep and consistent within us that
determines the choices we make and situations we bring about. He
addresses such questions as why members of the same family differ so
markedly in their natures? What is the best personality to have--a bold
one or a shy one, an aggressive one or a meek one? And are you stuck
with your personality, or can you change it?
Life, Nettle concludes, is partly the business of finding a niche where
your personality works for you. "It is a question of choosing the right
pond," he notes, "and being mindful of the dangers." There is no ideal
personality to have. Every disposition brings both advantages and
disadvantages.
Full of human wisdom as well as scientific insight, this book
illuminates the pluses and minuses of personality, offering practical
advice about living with the nature you were born with. It even includes
a questionnaire so that you can assess yourself.