Margot Fonteyn's closest friends don't appear in Daneman's detailed
biography. Lita Legarda (a doctor) gets a one line mention. Angie
Novello (Margot's Washington Hostess), Theodora Christon (Margot's
personal secretary) and Ken Ludden aren't mentioned at all. These were
the people she trusted most, who kept her confidences and never spoke to
the press. Everyone knew Margot differently. BQ, her mother, knew one
Margot. Tito, her husband, knew another. Ludden, her circle's youngest
by a large margin, knew yet another side of Margot: hence the title 'My
Margot'. Ken shares that Margot--who taught him so much about ballet and
life, and with whom he worked to plan ballet's future. Beyond Margot we
learn about Ken's delightful relationship with BQ, a close friendship
between a teenager and a woman of eighty. Ken also writes with
unflinching honesty of the hostile relationship he had with Rudolf
Nureyev, which developed over time into a grudging mutual respect and a
shared grief when Margot died.