Guided by acclaimed poet Matthew Dickman's signature "clarity and
ability to engage" (David Kirby, New York Times), Husbandry is a love
song from a father to his children. Written after a separation and
during overwhelming single-fatherhood in the early days of COVID-19
lockdowns, Husbandry refuses romantic notions of parenting and
embraces all its mess, anguish, humor, fear, boredom, and warmth.
Dickman composes these poems entirely in vivid couplets that animate the
various domestic pairs of broken-up parents, two sons, love and grief.
He explores the terrain of his children's dreams and nightmares, the
almost primal fears that spill into his own, and the residual impacts of
his parents' failures. Threading his anxieties with bright moments of
beauty and gratitude, the volume delights in seeing the world through
the clear eyes of childhood and finds meaning in the domestic
work--repetitive, exhausting, and sublime--of sustaining three lives.
With tender, aching precision, Husbandry reveals the poet's hunger to
be a husband without ever being one, and his search for a father that
ends with becoming one himself.