Forget about the hard bargain.
Whether you're discussing the terms of a high-stakes deal, forming a key
partnership, asking for a raise, or planning a family event, negotiating
can be stressful. One person makes a demand, the other concedes a point.
In the end, you settle on a subpar solution in the middle--if you come
to any agreement at all.
But these discussions don't need to be win-or-lose situations. Written
by negotiation expert Jeff Weiss, the HBR Guide to Negotiating
provides a disciplined approach to finding a solution that works for
everyone involved. Using a seven-part framework, this book delivers tips
and advice to move you from a game of concessions and compromises to one
of collaboration and creativity, resulting in better outcomes and better
working relationships. You'll learn how to:
- Prepare for your conversation
- Understand everyone's interests
- Craft the right message
- Work with multiple parties
- Disarm aggressive negotiators
- Choose the best solution