Anyone who has ever been close to a seriously depressed child has
undoubtedly been affected by the youngster's vulnerability, misery, and
pain. Indeed, it is much like caring for a child who is in physical
pain. For the child in the depths of depression, no activity is fun,
nothing can be enjoyed, and no one can provide enough consolation or
comfort. At times, the youngster may cry or whimper. There may be fits
of defiance or rage and sometimes withdrawal into a numb, sullen
silence. A child in this state tries the patience of parents and
siblings. Remedies of every sort are tried, including gifts,
punishments, bribes, lectures, pleading, and a host of others. Such
efforts occasionally provide temporary relief, but more often they seem
to make matters worse. Commonly, there is an emotional wall of anger and
frustration between a depressed child and other fumily members that may
inevitably lead to further isolation and withdrawal. If too much time
passes without their being helped, many depressed children and
adolescents come to believe that suicide offers the only real relief for
their pain. Currently, there is a Depression Awareness Week that
includes free screening at participating health and mental health
settings around the United States and is designed to identify depression
in adults, suggesting that society's awareness of depression and
psychiatric disorders is focused to a large extent on adults.