Had It Coming is not a diatribe or manifesto, but an informed look
at how attitudes around sexual behavior have changed and still need to
change.
As a culture we aren't very good at having nuanced, complicated
discussions, Doolittle writes in her introduction. The public space is
not a safe venue to talk about controversial subjects. Social media has
seen to that . . . I've come to embrace the complexities and messiness
that comes with those tough conversations.
Doolittle brings a personal voice to what has been a turning point for
most women: the #MeToo movement and its aftermath. The world is now
increasingly aware of the pervasiveness of rape culture in which
powerful men got away with sexual assault and harassment for years, but
Doolittle looks beyond specific cases to the big picture. The issue of
consent figures largely: not only is the public confused about what it
means, but an astounding number of legal authorities are too.