The recovered possess the key to overcoming anorexia. Although
individual sufferers do not know how the affliction takes hold, piecing
their stories together reveals two accidental afflictions. One is that
activity disorders--dieting, exercising, healthy eating--start as
virtuous practices, but become addictive obsessions. The other
affliction is a developmental disorder, which also starts with the
virtuous--those eager for challenge and change. But these overachievers
who seek self-improvement get a distorted life instead. Knowing anorexia
from inside, the recovered offer two watchwords on helping those who
suffer. One is "negotiate," to encourage compromise, which can aid
recovery where coercion fails. The other is "balance," for the ill to
pursue mind-with-body activities to defuse mind-over-body battles.