In this poignant memoir, poet-novelist Freya Manfred recounts the
artistic life and death of her father, the prolific and highly regarded
author Frederick Manfred. Using family letters and passages from her
father's novels as well as her own memoirs, she explores their powerful
personal and literary relationship, which spanned nearly five decades.
Freya manfred described what it meant to be the daughter of a
strong-willed man who was dedicated, sometimes at great cost, to a
creative life. Her story starts with the tender power and beauty of his
funeral in 1994, then moves back to a clear-eyed and often humorous
depiction of their home life, which was shaped by her father's
insistence on the quiet and solitude necessary for his writing. She
remembers the shift in their relationship as her literary career
blossomed and he added the roles of mentor and friend. Finally, she
shares frank and loving detail of her family's struggle to help her
father die well.