Death and Exes explores the complexity of grief and the author's
struggle to process loss through consumption; of food, drugs, alcohol,
pop culture, sex, and fashion. Buying and imbibing things are often
looked at as superficial distractions that keep us from dealing with
difficult emotions. In Death and Exes, they are touchstones that help
remind us of who we are during the times we feel most untethered and
alone. These are poems of mourning, but they are also a celebration of
the life affirming power of, among other things, burlesque, RuPaul,
Dolly Parton, Hellraiser, and Columbo.