"Because I Love Him" explains how girls become battered women, why they
stay and other issues that face trauma survivors, of all types. The book
explains the often perplexing behaviors of battered women and other
trauma survivors and gives us the tools necessary to help her understand
her response to the trauma, recover and learn to make choices that help
keep her safe. "Because I Love Him" explains victim-offender behaviors
and the relationship between them, utilizing research that spans almost
three decades, the input of hundreds of victims and survivors, both
human and animal, and capitalizes on information provided by offenders.
This allows females to examine the choices they make that cause them to
stand out from the "herd". The author addresses, and blows up, the
fallacies our society has designed to stay in our comfort zone and
shines a light on the arguments offenders wield to maintain their
comfort with the suffering they cause.