A year-long journey by the renowned psychiatrist and his writer wife
after her terminal diagnosis, as they reflect on how to love and live
without regret.
Internationally acclaimed psychiatrist and author Irvin Yalom devoted
his career to counseling those suffering from anxiety and grief. But
never had he faced the need to counsel himself until his wife, esteemed
feminist author Marilyn Yalom, was diagnosed with cancer. In A Matter
of Death and Life, Marilyn and Irv share how they took on profound new
struggles: Marilyn to die a good death, Irv to live on without her.
In alternating accounts of their last months together and Irv's first
months alone, they offer us a rare window into facing mortality and
coping with the loss of one's beloved. The Yaloms had numerous
blessings--a loving family, a Palo Alto home under a magnificent valley
oak, a large circle of friends, avid readers around the world, and a
long, fulfilling marriage--but they faced death as we all do. With the
wisdom of those who have thought deeply, and the familiar warmth of
teenage sweethearts who've grown up together, they investigate universal
questions of intimacy, love, and grief.
Informed by two lifetimes of experience, A Matter of Death and Life is
an openhearted offering to anyone seeking support, solace, and a
meaningful life.
